LIFE @ College

A student in school is concerned about his studies and the quality time with friends...that's all...no other botherations...he has no other thoughts and so a student at school enjoys his studentship to the fullest....

Going to the school daily....meeting with friends....chatting with them regarding each and everything of life....WE all have friends...some very close ones also....we share each bit of our heart with them....we trust them like anything....and we do really spend some time with them....on and off school....

Sometimes when I think about my past school days....I tend to get pretty nostalgic and start living those moments over again....The classrooms....the teachers....the benches....there exists a sound relationship of a student with all these....they belong to the student...as much as the student belongs to them....And now comes the most important aspect of the school life...."THE RESTRICTIONS"....there were quite a few...isn't it ???

@ school we're not allowed to do a lot of things....most importantly...bunking classes...that was a big "NO"....bringing cell phones to classes....again a big
"NO"....ahh well uniform is the other big restriction....We used to be taught discipline and mannerism at school....and so we used to enjoy every moment of the restrictions that were imposed on us....Though we never used to admit that....Many of us used to feel that there were too many restrictions....even some used to enjoy the restrictions.....

Now I'll tell you something....Life @ college is free from all restrictions and now we come to understand the joy of living under restrictions....@ school we used to break dozens of rules and make fun with a feeling of accomplishment....All those little joys then.....is a great memory now....And these memories are the treasures of life....no matter where we go....no matter what we become....no matter how we do in our own lives....but our memories are our possession....no one can take that from us....

We humans love to break the rules that are imposed on us....and now @ college..."NO RESTRICTIONS"....so it all seems too boring now....the fun element is present but in a different form....in a mature level...and we need time to get into the groove...Afterall we're just into college...as the title of the blog suggests "TEENS OVER !!!".....well that's how a boy/man feels when he's just come out of his teens....(Look at the "boy/man"...usage...cant really tell...this is the transition stage for one's life and it entirely depends upon the maturity level of the individual)

This is the point of time where a sense of responsibility comes to a boys notice....and that helps him to become a man....well maybe biologically there is not much difference between a 17 year old and a 20 year old....but yes...there is a huge gap in the mental perceptions of the two individuals.....A 17 year old is not too much concerned about his life after he is 20....at 17...he probably thinks....how to beat the other guy in class....but at 20....the same man thinks about survival strategies in this gruesome world...."Think about it"....

While @ school....a boy studies hard....enjoys with friends....to build a good career for himself....but little does he know about the real meaning of "CAREER"....while @ school, the boy has a very little idea about the coming life...but after reaching college and after getting the goal fixed he gets a much clearer picture from there....So, I'll say that there is a huge gap between the perceptions of a std XII guy and that of a college 1st year guy.....The college guy has a much clearer idea about the life he's heading to....he begins to fix his goals....and makes his preparations for the journey he has just started....a journey which will take him over to places....give him ideas...play with his thoughts, decisions...and finally shape him to be a good responsible gentleman.....(Similar for ladies....don't worry ladies)

Now this was the aspect regarding academics....Now I'll come to the other points.....gradually you'll see...how a boy transforms to a man....in a matter of few years....



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